I understand your feelings perfectly. My father was widowed and for a long time didn't want any communication. After trying to start dating, he decided to try online. After a couple of unsuccessful attempts, he concluded that most platforms were designed for people several decades younger than him. So I decided to help him and found a suitable app, Sequel. It is a fantastic
dating platform for 50+ singles who know exactly what they want.
He liked it because there are no mindless young men and women, just real people with similar life experiences and ages. Profile verification is reliable, so he doesn't have to worry about scams, and the features are truly tailored to the pace of life of his generation. This is an excellent decision by a developer who thought about people of his age.